25:23-27
On seeing David, Abigail got off her donkey and bowed down before David, this was a mark of respect for David. She then spoke to David. She did not beat about the bush about her husband. She referred to him as a complete fool, and a man full of folly. As an aside, this has implications for the notion that a husband or wife should stand by their spouse in all circumstances. Abigail did not stand by her man! So under what circumstances should one partner stand by the other when they are acting foolishly or doing wrong? I would say that it depends on whether the recalcitrant partner is willing to listen and learn. Abigail sees the Lord’s hand in restraining David from bloodshed.
25:28-31
Abigail knew who David was, which makes Nabal’s attitude all the more reprehensible. “No wrongdoing will be found in you as long as you live”. As 2 Samuel will make clear, this did not turn out to be true! She also declares various blessings and success for David from the Lord. Most importantly, David would not have “needless bloodshed” on his conscience. Our conscience is very important, and acting rashly or hastily can lead to us going against our conscience, and causing unnecessary harm for others.
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