Having dealt with sexual immorality, Paul now turns to a much more positive aspect of relationships, and this is one of the most fascinating chapters. Some may wonder what right Paul had to speak about marriage, him being single. However, although Paul was single, it is possible that he was a widower. Whether or not this was the case, there is a tremendous amount of wisdom in what he says.
Along with those who were for sexual licentiousness, there were others who went in the opposite direction and argued for complete abstinence. This is what gave rise to Paul's comments in this chapter.
In short Paul's answer is that it is indeed good to abstain from sexual relationships, but only if one has that gift from God. Celibacy is a gift from God, but is only given to a few. For the rest it is far better to get married. Now some may say that Paul is giving a very unromantic view of marriage here, viewing it essentially as means of avoiding sexual sin. There are two things to say about this. First, this is only part of Paul's teaching, and in response to a specific question. Secondly, we can be far too romantic, marriage is a very practical business.
Paul's teaching is that the woman's body belongs to the man, and the man's body to the woman, so there is complete equality here. This rather contradicts the uninformed view of some that Paul was a misogynist. Within marriage the couple should not deprive each other of sex, except by agreement. To do so will only lead to sin. Now this does not mean one partner can make unreasonable demands upon the other, or that they should have no concern for the other. Again, Paul is dealing with a specific question.
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